I (31F) have been dating my boyfriend (30M) for over a year and a half. I do love my dad but his fervor is weird. I told my dad I could FaceTime the ceremony but there isn’t any other way I can get there. And the first and last time I met my actual stepsister was at her mother’s funeral (she didn’t attend the wedding due to an illness). I am not in a financial position to fly halfway across the country right now. I am in my mid-30s and just started a new job with no immediate vacation time. My father keeps telling me I “need” to be there and to meet my “new stepsisters.” His fiancée is borderline begging him that I have to be there for us to be a “real” family. Her own adult daughters are flying overseas for this and she is paying for everything. She seems perfectly fine but obsessed over this wedding, which is weird because they are getting married in her backyard, in casual clothing, and the food is chips and sandwiches. Divorced my mom years ago, his second wife died five years ago, and then he met his current partner. My father is getting married for the third time. You are really making this a special time for our friend and I know she appreciates it.” Thank you again for all the work and coordination you’re doing. Could you let me know what else you have planned so I can see if I can commit to any of it? Oh, and please add my number to the thread where you send updates and changes of plans-I think I was unintentionally left off last time. I have a huge work project coming up and will be working most weekends over the summer so I may not be able to attend most of the upcoming events, but I would love to try to be there for Bride and spend time with everyone as much as possible. Or whoever seemed to be the ringleader on the day you showed up planning to eat brunch and spent the day on a lazy river instead.Ĭall or text her individually: “Hi Maid of Honor! Thank you for planning the water park day! It was so much fun. Multiple bachelorette parties? What is going on here? Here’s what you have to do: Identify the person who is in charge. Happily a Bridesmaid But Only at the Wedding
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